When they entered that class, they found a six-year-old child in the arms of the woman who every day cared for him. She

When they entered that class, they found a six-year-old child in the arms of the woman who every day cared for him. She

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When they entered that class, they found a six-year-old child in the arms of the woman who every day cared for him. She couldn't save him. But when everything had become terror, he had not left it alone.
That baby was called Dylan Hockley.
He was six years old, attending the first grade at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, and was autistic.
The woman who stringed it was Anne Marie Murphy, 52 years old, educational assistant of the school.
For Dylan, however, Anne Marie was not simply a person in charge of assisting him during the lessons.
She became a family presence.
The child was so fond of her that in the Hockley house there was a photograph attached to the refrigerator. His parents said Dylan was pointing it out every day.
He was one of the faces of his everyday life. A person he knew and trusted.
Anne Marie was also the mother of four children and had built her professional life around the education and assistance of children who needed special support.
Sandy Hook, one of those kids was Dylan.
Then came on December 14, 2012.
Shortly after nine and a half of the morning, a armed man entered the school.
Twenty children were killed in the next few minutes, all six or seven years, and six members of the school staff.
Among the victims were Anne Marie and Dylan.
On those last moments it would be easy to build dialogues, thoughts or heroic gestures. But doing so would mean adding something to their story that we cannot know.
The facts, alone, are already quite eloquent.
When they were found, Dylan was still in Anne Marie's arms.
For Nicole and Ian Hockley, the parents of the child, that particular assumed a huge meaning.
They knew the connection between them.
They knew how much Dylan was attached to his assistant.
Thus, within an impossible pain to measure, at least one certainty remained: in the last moments of his life, their child was not next to an unknown.
She was with the same woman in the photograph on the refrigerator.
The person he met at school.
The person he trusted.
A few months after the massacre, in March 2013, Connecticut decided that Anne Marie Murphy's name would remain linked to the work she had done.
The state recognition of educational assistants was named after Anne Marie Murphy.
One way to remember a profession that often takes place away from the spotlight and is made of daily presence, assistance and bonds built one day at a time.
And it is precisely that presence that makes it so difficult to forget the story of Anne Marie and Dylan.
We don't know what Dylan could understand in that morning's chaos.
We don't know what Anne Marie said to him or had time to tell him something.
We only know how they were found.
Together.
When around that child everything had become incomprehensible and terrifying, next to him was a person he knew.
Sometimes courage does not leave great speeches behind.
Sometimes it leaves only an impossible image to forget: a woman who, until the last moment, leaves not only a child.